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		<title>If it ain&#8217;t broke, fix it anyway</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 02:42:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>susandetwiler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If it ain’t broke, find a better way. Usually, I hear if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.  At nonprofits,… <a href="http://www.detwiler.com/if-it-aint-broke-fix-it-anyway/" class="more-link">more</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><a href="http://www.detwiler.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/sewing-machine.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1649" title="sewing machine" src="http://www.detwiler.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/sewing-machine-229x300.jpg" alt="sewing machine" width="229" height="300" /></a>If it ain’t broke, find a better way.</em></p>
<p>Usually, I hear <em>if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.  </em>At nonprofits, it’s usually used to defend the status quo – <em>we’ve never had term limits,</em> <em>our mission is still as important as ever, the materials in our literacy classes have always worked, we always read our committee reports out loud,</em> <em>Jimmy’s always handled our books,</em> <em>the 5K is our biggest fundraiser!</em></p>
<p>The problem is, if we only fixed what’s broken, we’d never have the automobile, the telephone, the radio, the iPod, the space shuttle. Heck, if we only fixed what’s broken, we might never have invented the sewing machine! Each of these improvements weren’t fixing something that was broken, they happened because someone said there had to be a better way.</p>
<p>It’s the same thing with delivering our missions. Our programs have been working just fine, thank you very much. Why should we change? The answer isn’t change for the sake of change. The answer is change to do it <em>better. </em>To have a <em>greater impact. </em>To use our resources <em>more wisely.</em></p>
<p>That’s why strong, effective nonprofits regularly evaluate their programs and measure their effectiveness. It’s not to fulfill funder requirements, although that <em>is </em>a nice benefit. It’s to see if we can learn from them, and find ways of having a greater impact.  Many nonprofits operate in the same mission space, because there is such a great need. It’s not competition if you can learn from each other, and discover the best practices for making a difference.</p>
<p>We evaluate our personnel all the time (or at least we know we should). Shouldn’t we be evaluating our programs?</p>
<p>Instead of saying, <em>If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it, </em>shouldn’t we be asking, <em>it ain’t broke, but can we do it better?</em></p>
<p><em>One of the 55 standards of <a title="Standards for Excellence" href="http://www.detwiler.com/services/standards-for-excellence/">The Standards for Excellence</a>: A Code of Ethics and Accountability for nonprofits calls for regular evaluation of programs. If you would like more information about the Standards, or ways to evaluate your programs, <a title="Contact" href="http://www.detwiler.com/contact/">let me know</a>. Let’s talk.</em></p>
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		<title>Well, did you do it?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 21:28:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>susandetwiler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, did you do it? Lunching with a great colleague this week, it dawned us that we both respond well… <a href="http://www.detwiler.com/well-did-you-do-it/" class="more-link">more</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.detwiler.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/IMG_0001_2.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1624" title="Organizational Plans" src="http://www.detwiler.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/IMG_0001_2-225x300.jpg" alt="post-it notes on board of organizational plans" width="225" height="300" /></a>Well, did you do it?</p>
<p>Lunching with a great colleague this week, it dawned us that we both respond well to external deadlines. We’re so bent on meeting client needs, that deadlines we set for ourselves sometimes go by the wayside.</p>
<p>We all do this, and nonprofit board members are no different. As we respond to the challenge…<em>or opportunity</em>&#8230;of the moment, we let long term goals slide. At board meetings we deal with immediate issues while our strategic plans languish with 10 minutes at the end.</p>
<p>The cycle continues. Each year we make plans, often repeating last years’: recruit new board members, seek best practices in hiring, expand our reach, or whatever we have identified as crucial to our growth. Yet 5 months into the year, it’s still just a plan.</p>
<p>I solved the problem with an accountability partner&#8230;someone who regularly asks me what I&#8217;ve done that week to further my goals. Then I commit to specific steps toward my goals, so she can ask me again.</p>
<p>Maybe the board needs an external accountability partner. A coach. A guide. A nudge. Someone to regularly check in with the president and the executive, help them keep board <a title="Is This Meeting Really Necessary?" href="http://www.detwiler.com/is-this-meeting-really-necessary/">meetings</a> focused on long term and strategic issues, and help them figure out ways to do it better. Someone to guide them through the hazard of rehashing decisions that have already been made.  Perhaps a coach to help them figure out how to make sure that committee and staff work are done by committees and staff, while the board spends its valuable time focusing on mission.</p>
<p>Think about your own life. Making a commitment to someone else has a way of focusing our attention. Maybe we should use the same approach for our boards.</p>
<p><em>If this is an intriguing idea, <a title="Contact" href="http://www.detwiler.com/contact/">contact me</a>. I’d be happy to hear your thoughts, and help you think through whether your organization might benefit from a <a title="Coaching" href="http://www.detwiler.com/coaching/">coach. </a></em></p>
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		<title>Are you collecting tokens?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 18:59:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>susandetwiler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the Standards for Excellence states that “Board membership should reflect the diversity of the communities served by the… <a href="http://www.detwiler.com/collecting_tokens/" class="more-link">more</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the <a title="Standards for Excellence Institute" href="http://www.standardsforexcellence.org" target="_blank">Standards for Excellence</a> states that <a href="http://www.detwiler.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/tokens1.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1605" title="tokens1" src="http://www.detwiler.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/tokens1-300x224.jpg" alt="international tokens" width="300" height="224" /></a></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">“<em>Board membership should reflect the diversity of the communities served by the organization.”</em></p>
<p>But what does diverse mean?  In the early days of affirmative action, there was a water cooler joke that to get hired you needed to be able to check off certain boxes – black, Hispanic, female, with an Asian surname. The more boxes you could check off, the more likely your resume would be read.</p>
<p>Wow, is that dated! Not to mention extremely offensive! That’s not diversity, that’s tokenism.</p>
<p>Instead, look at what a Board Source white paper <em><a title="Does Board Size Really Matter?" href="http://www.boardsource.org/Knowledge.asp?ID=7.1563" target="_blank">Does Board Size Really Matter</a></em> says about <em>diversity</em> versus <em>inclusivity. </em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>Increasing diversity in itself cannot be the ultimate goal. The goal must start by understanding the power of difference — searching for the perfect mixture of attributes, using what individuals have to offer, negotiating for the best solution. Being inclusive of diverse opinions and approaches is the solid foundation when building diversity.</em></p>
<p>Of course, every organization is different, so mandating a list of skills, attributes and perspectives isn’t possible. Instead, what do <em>you</em> need from your board in the way of passion, viewpoints, talent, skills, and contacts?</p>
<p>Only after you’ve figured this out, should you go out and engage prospective board members of all kinds. Board members who are collectively <em>inclusive </em>of a diverse constituency will be your best defense against stodgy ‘been there, done that’ mentality.</p>
<p>But merely checking off boxes doesn’t do it.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;d like more information about Standards for Excellence, let me know. Click here for <a title="Standards for Excellence" href="http://www.detwiler.com/services/standards-for-excellence/">more info! </a></p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 02:20:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My husband and I talk about this a lot, as we watch the daily news. People are always trying to… <a href="http://www.detwiler.com/im-sorry/" class="more-link">more</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.detwiler.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/DSCN5064.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1597" title="Three Shades of Rodin" src="http://www.detwiler.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/DSCN5064-300x224.jpg" alt="Sculpture Three Shades of Rodin" width="300" height="224" /></a>My husband and I talk about this a lot, as we watch the daily news. People are always trying to wiggle out of responsibility for the mistakes they’ve made, the people they’ve injured, the messes that others have to clean up.</p>
<p>Whatever happened to “<em>I’m Sorry?</em>”  Whatever happened to “<em>It’s my fault?</em>”   Whatever happened to “<em>I made a mistake, I will fix it?</em>”</p>
<p>This post from Sarah Andrus says it clearly and concisely. When we make a mistake, we must own it and make reparations. Her post talks about individuals, but it’s equally true of organizations. <a href="http://sarahbandrus.wordpress.com/2012/01/15/my-bad-or-how-to-handle-mistakes-with-grace/"><strong>“My Bad…” or How to Handle Mistakes With Grace</strong></a></p>
<p>This is where a culture of ethics and accountability can make all the difference. If your organization has a culture in which individuals – both board and staff – are known to take responsibility for mistakes and are not unduly punished for them, then each person can feel more comfortable owning his or her mistakes.  Honesty and integrity become the hallmarks for which you are known. The receptionist can feel proud of working for you, the donor can be proud of supporting you, your community will offer up new board members.</p>
<p>Think about it.  If all the time and energy spent in evading responsibility were instead spent in fixing the problem and taking steps so it doesn’t happen again, then the entire organization moves forward that much faster.</p>
<p><em>Where would you rather work – where energy is spent covering it up, or where energy is spent making it right?  </em></p>
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		<title>C&#8217;mon People, It&#8217;s Not Donor Relations!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 01:52:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Quit calling it donor relations. It’s people relations. It doesn’t matter if she&#8217;s a prospective donor, a volunteer, a parent… <a href="http://www.detwiler.com/cmon-people-its-not-donor-relations/" class="more-link">more</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Quit calling it donor relations.</p>
<p>It’s people relations. It doesn’t matter if she&#8217;s a prospective donor, a volunteer, a parent or a student. It doesn’t matter if he gives time, money, or attention. Or none of the above. <a href="http://www.detwiler.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/DSCN2371.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1576" title="DSCN2371" src="http://www.detwiler.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/DSCN2371-300x224.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="224" /></a></p>
<p>If you care about your organization, then you should be building relationships with every person.</p>
<p>Every  single person you encounter.</p>
<p>Segmenting the people you know for the purposes of sending appropriate messages is one thing. Segmenting them because you think that somehow donors are different from other people is completely different.</p>
<p>A person is a person is a person is a person. A person has dreams, hopes, and ambitions. A person has quirks and traits and tendencies. Anyone might have a reason to care about your organization, and it might not be the reason you think.</p>
<p>But if you only look at her as “soccer mom,” you might miss that this particular person dreams about somehow personally making a difference. If you only look at him as “volunteer,” you might miss that he hopes to introduce his kids to philanthropy through your organization. If you only look at that couple as “stay-at-homes,” you might miss that they really are seeking for the best way to invest their time and energy together.</p>
<p>Everyone should be in your database, so when you encounter that person, it doesn’t matter whether he’s a donor or not – you have an entrée into a conversation about their dreams, hope and ambitions.</p>
<p>A chance encounter with a community member was a forceful reminder of this truth. His kids are really into soccer. My client was an arts organization that educates children. A mismatch? Not at all. Not after he wistfully said he wished his kids could learn a little discipline. What is learning to play an instrument but learning discipline? Sure, it&#8217;s a lot of other things, too. But one big part of what it brings to kids is the knowledge that if you keep at it, you become better. Maybe the class in rock can do that for him.</p>
<p>Everyone you meet is a potential relationship. And every relationship starts with seeing every person.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 21:12:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Where are you now? Before 1973, no one ever asked where are you? when they reached you on the phone. Of… <a href="http://www.detwiler.com/where-are-you-now/" class="more-link">more</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Where are you now?</em></p>
<p>Before 1973, no one ever asked <em>where are you</em>? when they reached you on the phone. Of course they knew where you were. You were within 3 feet of the telephone they had dialed (now that&#8217;s an anachronism!). Thirty years later, times have changed. Today, because of mobile phones, one of the first things we ask when we reach someone is, <em>where are you?</em><a href="http://www.detwiler.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Photo-170.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1531 alignright" title="retro telephone" src="http://www.detwiler.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Photo-170-300x225.jpg" alt="retro telephone detwiler mission standards for excellence governance" width="270" height="203" /></a></p>
<p><em>Where are you?</em> An innocuous casual question that turns quite profound when you ask it of your organization. If, in 30 years, the world has changed so we call individuals instead of a place, has your nonprofit kept pace? Do you still ask your constituents to come to your location, or do your meet them where they are? Have your programs evolved to meet the new mobility of society? Has your mission changed?</p>
<p>Society’s rate of change has accelerated. When was the last time your board of directors evaluated whether your programs are still relevant, much less whether your mission is? Once every 10 years isn’t enough (and maybe it never was). But certainly  <em>never</em> shouldn’t be the answer.</p>
<p>In fact, maybe <em>now </em>is when you should ask, <em>where are you?</em></p>
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		<title>Is Relationship-Building a False God?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Oct 2011 21:36:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Relationship builders are not best at selling during challenging times. Does this have implications for nonprofits building donor relationships?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><a href="http://www.detwiler.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/false-god.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1477" title="false god" src="http://www.detwiler.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/false-god-224x300.jpg" alt="" width="224" height="300" /></a>Challenging the Relationship Model of Fundraising</strong></p>
<p>Received wisdom now says that relationship building is the way to raise more money from donors. It’s why we changed the name from Fundraising to Development; we expect to develop relationships with people, with the ultimate goal of getting them to make a big gift (or two, or three).</p>
<p>This may still be true, but <a title="Selling is not about relationships" href="http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2011/09/selling_is_not_about_relatio.html?referral=00563&amp;cm_mmc=email-_-newsletter-_-daily_alert-_-alert_date&amp;utm_source=newsletter_daily_alert&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_campaign=alert_date" target="_blank">a study</a> from Matthew Dixon and Brent Adamson challenges the notion that relationship building causes higher sales in the for-profit environment. What this means for the nonprofit sector is up for debate.</p>
<p>Dixon is Managing Director of the Corporate Executive Board&#8217;s <a href="http://www.executiveboard.com/sales-marketing/">Sales and Service Practice</a>. Adamson is Senior Director of the <a href="https://sec.executiveboard.com/Public/Default.aspx">Sales Executive Council</a>, a division of the Sales and Service Practice. Their new book, <em><a href="http://www.executiveboard.com/challenger/">The Challenger Sale: Taking Control of the Customer Conversation</a></em>, is the result of studying 6,000 sales representatives across more than 100 companies around the world. Detailing their work habits, their motivation and their results, they classified the reps into 5 groups:</p>
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<li>Relationship builder</li>
<li>Lone wolf</li>
<li>Hard worker</li>
<li>Reactive problem solver</li>
<li>Challenger</li>
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<p>These groups are described in the <a title="Selling is not about relationships" href="http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2011/09/selling_is_not_about_relatio.html?referral=00563&amp;cm_mmc=email-_-newsletter-_-daily_alert-_-alert_date&amp;utm_source=newsletter_daily_alert&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_campaign=alert_date" target="_blank">HBR Blog,</a> but suffice it to say that the Relationship builder was NOT the best performer.</p>
<p>Surprisingly, Challenger, who did not acquiesce to every client whim, who did not work to smooth over any tension, and in fact made a point of asking penetrating questions about client assumptions, outperformed the others in complex and challenging situations.</p>
<p>Now, if these economic times aren’t challenging for nonprofits, I don’t know what would be. Perhaps it’s time to <em>(ahem) </em>challenge our assumptions of how to deal with donors in these times.</p>
<p>More study is definitely needed.</p>
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		<title>Mission Before Money</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Dec 2010 20:08:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>susandetwiler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mission before Money. Basic pillars of a special fundraising campaign.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This post was originally on Ingrid Zacharias&#8217; excellent blog, <a title="Envisioning the Future" href="http://ow.ly/3vkWC" target="_blank">Envisioning the Future</a>.</p>
<h1>Capital Campaigns Require Deep Foundations</h1>
<p>Ever notice how ancient buildings have deep foundations? Visiting France last year, we took a guided tour of the breathtaking Notre Dame de Chartres – a millennium old church built on the same spot as many churches that came before.  Much of the foundation of this church was put into place during Roman times!</p>
<p>It’s the same thing with a capital campaign. A strong campaign needs a strong foundation. You may be sure you need a new building or renovated space, but fundraising will be a long hard slog with a lot of surprises if you don’t build your foundation first.</p>
<p>The absolute first pillar in that foundation is <em>Mission.</em></p>
<p>For those of us in the nonprofit world, it’s a given that <em>Mission </em>is the essential that drives our entire enterprise. Who are we serving, what are we trying to achieve, what outcome are we working toward?</p>
<p>It’s the same thing with a special campaign. The need for that new building, or renovation, or endowment, starts with how it’s going to serve your mission. If you don’t have a clear mission, easily articulated by each of your constituents, then your campaign is starting with a handicap.</p>
<p>Your school doesn’t need 5 new classrooms; it needs to help 30 more special needs students achieve independence. Your library doesn’t need a new building to house the books and computers; your community needs a safe and free space for the unemployed to seek information about new jobs and get the training they need to pursue them. Your zoo doesn’t need a veterinary clinic to retain accreditation; your community needs to show its children that we are obligated to care for the animals in our world the best way we know how. Your soccer fields don’t need lights for night games; you need to provide an opportunity for people to come together in the evening, building family and community unity.</p>
<p><em>Mission</em>, then, is the first pillar in your foundation. Is it clear? Compelling? Articulated? Is your potential new project clearly in support of your mission? Most importantly, can everyone associated with your organization recite and support your mission?</p>
<p>Yes? Great! You have the first foundation of a great organization and an excellent campaign. Now build the next pillar: <em>Governance.</em></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><em>Stay tuned!</em></p>
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		<title>Vision is overrated.</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 19:47:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sick of talk about vision? Me too. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Vision. Vision. Vision.</p>
<p>Everyone talks about making sure your board has a vision. To paraphrase Eliza Doolittle in My Fair Lady &#8212; <em>words, words, words, I&#8217;m so sick of words&#8230;don&#8217;t talk of Vision, Show me!</em></p>
<p>Whatever happened to implementation???</p>
<p>Look, I’m not saying the first step isn’t important – it is! Without vision, you stagnate. If you don’t know where you’re going, you waste time spinning wheels.</p>
<p>But once you know what you want to become, it takes decisions and details; process and payments; learning the laws and following them; checks and balances; good management and good manners. And all the while, staying focused on the vision.</p>
<p>But JUST having a vision isn’t enough. Nonprofit leadership is fostering that vision, planning to make it reality, inspiring everyone to get on board, and then, well, <strong><em>making it happen.</em></strong></p>
<p>Vision AND Implementation. It takes both. As consultants, we do our clients a disservice if we stop at the first step.</p>
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		<title>I read it in the NY Times</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Aug 2010 22:10:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Personal experience, industry knowledge and good research is a hard combination to refute. Use credible sources to bolster your advice.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was growing up, any time I wanted to prove that the fact I had just spouted was true, all I needed to tell my Dad was that I&#8217;d read it in the New York Times. I’m pretty sure he knew that sometimes I just said that to get him off my back, but there&#8217;s no doubt that a trusted outside source can still go a long way toward bolstering your case.</p>
<p>Take, for instance, dealing with a board of directors that’s reluctant to try something new, or when a director or volunteer questions your wise counsel.</p>
<p>For example, I’ve advised several smaller nonprofits to accept online donations. There’s the usual grumbling about security concerns and that credit cards take too much out of the donation.  But pointing to studies that show the advances in credit card and online donations go a long way to convincing the nay-sayers.</p>
<p>This study by Blackbaud (<strong><a title="Blackbaud Online Giving Study" href="http://www.blackbaud.com/files/resources/downloads/bb_online_index_report.pdf" target="_blank">The Blackbaud Index of Online Giving)</a> </strong>is a good one to show your reluctant boards. It’s particularly good to show to small and medium-sized nonprofits, whose peers had their online contributions increase by an average of 7%, year -over-year.</p>
<p>Personal experience, industry knowledge and good research is a hard combination to refute.</p>
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